Upcoming Events
Corporate Affairs
Welcome to Corporate Affairs, brought to you by a team with over a decade of curating play experiences, where sophistication and indulgence blend seamlessly into an evening of unparalleled luxury.
Set in a stunning private venue to be revealed closer to the date, this exclusive play party offers a gourmet dinner, an open bar with specialty cocktails, and a curated whiskey and wine tasting.
Throughout the night, enjoy the services of a makeup artist and a massage therapist, while a captivating performance awaits at midnight. Our attentive staff will be on hand for bedside service, ready to cater to your every need. Experience an evening meticulously crafted for luxurious indulgence and refined pleasure, designed to make you feel truly elite. More details to be announced!
(This party is vetted and sapphics only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this vetting form and are approved via email. When you fill out the vetting form you can also opt-in to our email list, and do not need to fill out a separate form.)
Boycott 2: Electric Boogaloo
Get ready to light up the night at Boycott 2: Electric Boogaloo—where love and neon collide in a dazzling display of sapphic sparkle!
Join us for a night of electrifying beats, glowing vibes, and sparkly dance moves that’ll make your heart race faster than the strobe lights. Don’t miss out on this radiant rebellion—let’s make it a night to glow down in history!
(This party is vetted and sapphics only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this vetting form and are approved via email. When you fill out the vetting form you can also opt-in to our email list, and do not need to fill out a separate form.)
Can I Kiss YOu?
This is a great chance to meet other members, dip your toes into the scene, or have a fun ENM date night! Make some connections, and feel emboldened to ask the question of the night...Can I Kiss You?
Come to the newly renovated Madame X from 6-10pm to join us!
If you love the vibe, or you already know you want to be a part of Life Itself - go ahead and get vetted in the ticket link attached.
Sunday Brunch | Members Only
Join us for a playful and indulgent Sunday Brunch at our Schaefer Townhouse, featuring a delicious spread catered by IHOP and a delightful coffee bar to kickstart your day. Explore our vendors, get your photo taken with consent on the roof, join in on the cuddle puddle, and indulge in delicious open bar of cocktails by Mr. Punch, all included in your ticket!
This event is also a celebration of Arick's birthday, so come ready to eat, play, and celebrate!
(This party is members only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this application and are approved via email. When you fill out the application you can also opt-in to our email list, and do not need to fill out a separate form.)
0069 | A Spy Themed Play Party
Whether you’re a rival spy, Q with all the toys, or a civilian swept up in a whirlwind gobal conspiracy - get ready to fuck your plans (consensually)
(This party is members only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this application and are approved via email. When you fill out the application you can also opt-in to our email list, and do not need to fill out a separate form.)
Clitterbomb | A Sapphic Play Party
This is a night of great playlists, fandom joy, and queer pining. This is your chance to make your fantasy come true - whether that is listening to Dove's In The Wind while giving head, kissing someone to 365, flirting to Girls Like Girls, or dancing the night away to Hot To Go!
Come enjoy your favorite artist's favorite play party, with Life Itself.
(This party is members only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this application and are approved. When you fill out the application you can also opt-in to our email list.)
The Sexiest Mixer Yet @ Madame X
Welcome to Madame X NYC & Life Itself: The Sexiest Mixer Yet! Join us at Madame X for a night of glamour, music, and mingling. This in-person event is the perfect opportunity to meet other Life Itself party goers, spice up your date night, get to know a play partner, or dip your toes into the play party world!
Enjoy delicious drinks, fun games and conversation, mix and mingle night away at the sexiest bar in NYC. Whether you're single, taken, or just looking for a good time, this mixer is sure to spice up your evening.
Don't miss out on your chance to connect!
This is not a play party - this is a munch / mixer / social gathering. Dress code is cocktail hour or date night, but please dress to your comfort in public spaces.
Get vetted for our other parties in the meantime here!
MIDSOMMAR | Members Only
Join us for an unforgettable night featuring a talented photographer capturing your moments in our dedicated photo area, as well as mesmerizing fire photography with a nude model, who will later pose for a self-guided figure drawing session on our beautiful rooftop.
Enjoy delicious snacks, a rooftop play space, and explore a variety of vendors including Amor y Dinero's fashion, Love and Live Wellness, Techno Tarot, alongside live shibari performances and more surprises to come!
Membership Application
(This party is members only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this application and are approved via email. When you fill out the application you can also opt-in to our email list, and do not need to fill out a separate form.)
Jursapphic Park | Members Only
Welcome to Jursapphic Park!
We love a strong protagonist, and Jurassic Park’s Ellie Sattler is no exception. As a paleobotanist, she’s intelligent and passionate about her work. She challenges traditional gender roles by excelling in a male-dominated field and rejecting the damsel-in-distress stereotype. Ellie risks her life to save others, outsmarts deadly velociraptors, and ultimately saves the day.
Jursapphic Park celebrates individuals like Ellie who defy society’s expectations. With a fun dinosaur theme, it’s inspired by those who take risks and stay true to themselves.
"Sapphic" is an umbrella term encompassing a spectrum of sexual and romantic orientations and gender identities. We welcome queer and queer-curious women of all orientations, as well as transgender and non-binary/GNC individuals who identify as sapphic.
Jursapphic Park is produced and staffed by non-cis-men, with cis men respectfully absent from this event.
Membership Application
(This party is members only and you are not allowed to purchase a ticket until you fill out this application and are approved via email. When you fill out the application you can also opt-in to our email list, and do not need to fill out a separate form.)
Débauche - Itself
Welcome to Debauche-Itself, the ultimate fusion of pleasure and excitement! We cater to those who practice unconventional relationship dynamics such as consensual non-monogamy. Co-produced by Consensual Events and Life Itself, we've joined forces to curate an unparalleled night of indulgence.
Sinners' Shabbat
Deviants, kinksters, queens, and transgressors:
Join us as we celebrate God’s day of rest with unholy revelry. Whether you’re a yid or a goy, formerly religious or a shabbat dinner newbie, a mensch or a shiksa, we’re excited to have all of your debaucherous tuchuses at our metaphorical shabbos table (because we’re kicking’ it buffet style). Hosted at the Spacious HMU private loft. (Address will be in your ticket confirmation email)
Studio 69 | A Music & Arts Festival
Welcome to Studio 69, where the beats are hot, the art is vibrant, and the play never stops. Immerse yourself in the spirit of Studio 54 with a modern twist, where creativity flourishes and every moment is a celebration of music and art.
BOYCOTT | A Sapphic Play Party
Welcome to Boycott! Cis men are respectfully absent. Produced and staffed entirely by femmes :)
May The Fourth | A STAR WARS PLAY PARTY
A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away...
A play party unfolds in a flurry of anticipation and whispered negotiations.
Within dungeons and play spaces, dominants wield implements with the skill of lightsaber masters while submissive rebels navigate desires guided by Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) principles akin to ancient Jedi teachings.
Han Solo Poly pilots his Millennium Falcon of desire through a polyamorous nebula, inviting adventurers into a constellation of connections, while Jabba the Slut presides over a lavish den of hedonistic delights.
Laughter and the rhythm of impact play fill the air, weaving a tapestry of pleasure and respect across the galactic expanse.
It's Not Fitness, It's Life Itself
IT"S NOT FITNESS, IT'S LIFE ITSELF.
Join us for a night of play, fitness and wellness where we'll be breaking a sweat and having a blast!
Whether you're a gym enthusiast or just looking to stretch and unwind, there's something for everyone.
Summer is cumming, time to get back at it!
Don't miss your chance to 'get your reps in,' 'get your steps in,' and even 'get your strokes in' as you mingle, move, and maybe even catch a glimpse of your 'Gym crush.' Whether you're a seasoned fitness fanatic or just starting out, this is the perfect opportunity to explore, connect, and have fun. So, grab your workout gear and join us for a night of wellness and wonder!"
THURSDAYS #2
Join us for THURSDAYS, the no stress Pizza Play Party where slowing down, chilling out, and basking in the warmth and excitement of play are the order of the night. Say goodbye to the hustle and bustle of the week and dive into an evening devoted to relaxation and embracing the warmth of like-minded souls.
We have a full play space, with a viewing party in our cuddle room where will be screening, Secretary! The foundational, canonical kinky movie that is required viewing for all sluts!
THURSDAYS isn't just any play party—it's a welcoming environment for all experience levels. If you're feeling nervous, curious, or simply eager to learn, this is the perfect place to start your journey.
Our lower price point ensures that THURSDAYS is accessible to all, making it an ideal entry point for newcomers.
Whether you're seeking a quiet escape from the week's chaos or a cozy date night alternative, THURSDAYS offers the perfect setting. So, don't hesitate—and join us as we slow down the tempo and savor the simple pleasures of life together.